Picture this: A recently converted young man (let’s call him
Bobby) approaches me to share of his zeal and passion for God and his desire to
make Christ known among the nations. My conversation with Bobby would probably
go something like this:
Bobby: I’m so excited! I want everyone to know about the God
who saved me from my sin and who now calls me His friend. My blind eyes have been
opened and my chains have fallen off, and I just want everyone to feel this
way!
Me: Praise God! That’s wonderful.
Bobby: I just can’t hold this in. I think God’s calling me
to go to seminary.
Me: Wait. Why do you think God is calling you to seminary?
Bobby: Well, because I want to go into full-time ministry. I
want to tell everyone about Christ!
Conversations like the one above are not at all uncommon,
particularly with young men who have been recently converted, have a burden for
lost souls, or simply find the idea of ministry appealing. However, many of the guys who are quick to
proclaim their desire to go into ministry or to attend seminary never actually
go into the ministry at all. And sadly, there are some who start out in
vocational ministry but fail to stick with it for various reasons.
While I could easily write about the many explanations for
pastoral burnout or make a case as to why the flame that once burned fervently
for the Lord inside a young man’s heart is now quenched, I am instead going to attempt
to provide some pastoral insight on the front end of the problem.
From my perspective, the church has created an unwarranted
separation between vocational pastoral ministry and other occupations. Let me
explain it this way: When we see a young man who exhibits a heart for God and
who is confident in his faith, many people automatically assume that God must
be calling that man into pastoral ministry. This attitude has transformed the
way we view pastoral ministry, and it has greatly influenced the minds of young
men who see becoming a pastor as the only way to be useful in God’s kingdom.
Doesn’t our world also have a need for godly accountants, construction workers,
and teachers?
Along with this unwarranted separation between vocational
ministry and other professions, in many cases, churches set unreasonable
expectations on their pastors. Rather than expecting pastors to equip the entire church to do the work
of the ministry, the church often expects the pastor to do the entire work of the ministry (See Ephesians 4:11-12).
Therefore, a great chasm grows between the layperson and the pastor, which
feeds the attitude that pastoral ministry is the only way to truly serve God.
Sadly, we live in a day where I have come to expect that every
young man who is serious about his faith will tell me he wants to be a pastor. While
some of these guys might be gifted for pastoral ministry, there are many more who
place unfair pressure upon themselves to be something they were never meant to
be.
The pastoral office is not for the weak of heart, and even
more importantly, it is not for those who would rather do something else. (And,
did I mention – It’s more than okay if a young man who is a strong, spiritual
leader wants to do something else!) Scripture tells us in 1 Timothy 3:1 that if
anyone desires to be a pastor, he desires a good work. From this verse, we see
that a desire for pastoral ministry is a prerequisite for the man pursuing the
pastoral office. However, pastoral ministry is not a vocation you simply choose
out of a college catalog on career day during your senior year of high school.
The desire for ministry looks different than the desire to be a financial
advisor or a chemist; the desire for pastoral ministry is one that requires
care for the souls of men and women. Therefore, while the pastoral office is certainly
not the only way for a Christian man to pursue God and to be useful in His
kingdom, it is an office that should be pursued carefully, for someone who
pursues it wrongly can do a lot of harm to a congregation, to his family, and to
himself.
To sum things up, here is my pastoral advice for a young man
who wants to go into full-time vocational ministry: Rather than spending all
your time discerning whether you are called to be a pastor, spend your time
simply being a Christian and focusing on your own godly living. While 1 Timothy
3:1 prescribes a necessary desire that must be present within a man who is
called to pastoral ministry, verses 2-7 describe what the character of that man
will look like. And the character of the man who is fit for the office of
pastor is the same character that all
Christians are called to aspire towards. For this reason, it is of the utmost
importance to plant yourself in a local church that can help cultivate your
gifts and walk alongside you as you seek to live like a Christian, whether you
become a pastor or not. Remember, you are most useful to the kingdom of God
right where you are, whether you serve as a pastor, landscaper, student,
architect, or are currently unemployed. If you think you want to be a pastor,
aspire to the character traits in 1 Timothy 3:2-7, and if you are truly called
to the pastorate that desire will not flame out, and God will provide a way as
your desire and gifts become evident for all to see.
~Corey