I have been thinking a lot
lately about organization – the purpose of it, the good that it does, and even
the bad that it can bring. Let me start by saying that chaos and disorder drive
me absolutely nuts. I am a list-making, note-writing, calendar-keeping kind of gal.
My husband and I share a Google calendar so we can keep up with each other’s
schedules; I have a hand-written daily schedule, which I make every weekend
that includes details of the upcoming week; I meal-plan and prepare my grocery
list according to the meals for the week; and I have specific days for doing
specific household chores. Although I’m by no means perfect at it, and
certainly never will be, I LOVE order and organization! And it is clear in
God's Word that God himself desires organization too. We see in the Creation
account in Genesis that God took what had no form and brought orderliness to it
to make it function in a particular way. Additionally, in 1 Corinthians 14:40,
Paul is speaking about worship gatherings and writes, "But all things
should be done decently and in order." Orderliness and organization are
admirable things!
The good side of
organization is pretty obvious: It helps with time-management, finances, and
the cleanliness of our home. Organization makes sure that I get where I'm
supposed to be when I'm supposed to be there and that, in general, our home is
run like a well-oiled machine. But what is the point of organization if I'm not
also using it to do good for my church body, neighbors, other family members,
or friends? Organization could mean having a meal in the freezer, ready to take
to someone in need or to pop in the oven when unexpected guests drop by. It
could also mean having your spare bedroom ready and available for an individual
or family who may need a place to stay. As Philippians 2:3 says, "Do
nothing from selfish ambition or conceit, but in humility count others more
significant than yourselves." No matter our method of organization or even
if organization is not our strong suit, as Christians, we should be ready and
willing to serve when the opportunity arises. We know that there are many
positive attributes to organization, but what about the negative ones?
What happens when something
good becomes something bad? I'm talking about idolatry. Yes, our human hearts
tend to turn what God intended for good into something that dishonors and
displeases Him. Organization most definitely can fit that description. I have
been guilty of wanting my home and family-life to appear to be well-organized
in order to impress other people. Rather than being organized to help me be
more efficient to the glory of God, I was organized for the sake of being neat
and tidy for my own selfish desires. As Tim Challies says in his book, Do
More Better, “Your good works are like a light, and when that light shines,
it illuminates God. When people see that light, they aren't meant to look at
you and say, 'He’s incredible' or 'She’s amazing.' They are meant to look at
God and say, 'He is awesome.'”
In addition, I've also been
one (and still sometimes am) who sacrifices family time or fellowship for the
sake of keeping up with my to-do list. Now, don't get me wrong, life can't
always be a party, and there are times when we must sacrifice going to have
coffee with a friend because right now is the only time we'll be able to clean
our house during a busy week! On the other hand, however, it most definitely
could be that having coffee with a friend who's going through a tough time
should be your priority at that particular moment. But we must use wisdom when
making these decisions, and we must think about which action (in this case,
cleaning or fellowship) would be most pleasing to God at that time, keeping in
mind our responsibility to our husbands and children. Whoever said life is a
balancing act was absolutely right! No matter what we decide in situations such
as those, let us always strive to make the choice that would bring the most
glory to God.
"So whether we are at home or away, we make it our aim to please him."
2 Corinthians 5:9
2 Corinthians 5:9
Love,
Kristen
I like your thoughts! This is great encouragement for those of us who love our calendars and live by lists. Thanks for sharing these good reminders!
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